Why Canamp39t I Last Long In Bed

Yesterday we were making out on his bed. It started of slow and romantic, then one kiss got a bit steamy, and by that I mean passionate (we did NOT feel each other up and down.. we have loads of limits) after a while we wanted to experiment our kissing position (he always wanted a lappy, like me sitting on his lap as we kissed) so he asked if he could and I gave in, we kissed like that for say about a minute and then we both thought it may get too much so we stopped and I got up. After that we were just sitting in bed and kissing, and then naturally we just fell back on the bed, and the next moment he's on top of me, and our kiss turns real steamy and aggressive. I loved every bit of it, and I was not uncomfortable, if I was I would have stopped him. Then we got up, he then asked for it again..so we fell back on the bed, and that kiss lasted longer, we didn't break it for a while. Until he suddenly sprung up and goes "sorry" as we quickly got up. Later at night he told me something I didn't expect, he said he got an erection while we were kissing as we lay down. I hardly knew what to say to him. I kinda wondered why he told me this. He also later on told me that he wanted the lappy again. Do you think the lappy lead to his erection? And could it be that he sprung up because of the erection? Also, is it dangerous? We both don't want to have sex. But after he said this I got scared we'd get carried away. :( Also, does a man have an orgasm when he ejaculates? Thank you SO much to everyone that helps me out.

I do say leave him, I'm currently going thur something like this. yes it does hurt to be at family functions without your husband or boyfriend. It will only get worse if you stay so I feel you need to get out now. Things sound like they won't change. Give each other space and see what happens. Hope everything works out.

I would go visit her, let her apologize, forgive her but NOT as a lover. She would have to accept that I am now happily married and nothing is going to change that. I can forgive her for what she did in the past, but I am not going to just pretend like we are together for the last moments of her life.

Send him to the gym. If he is overweight, have him lose his weight by joining services like Weight Watchers or Jenny Craig.

Perhaps ypu can give each other nice relaxing massages. This site has a guide to online massage therapy. http://www.massagetherapy101.com/ This is a step-by-step guide. http://www.101lifestyle.com/beauty/massage/massage.html It would have two significant benefits. Firstly, it would relax you both. Secondly, it would lead to sex between you both being more relaxed. Best wishes to you both.

Maybe he masturbates frequently when you're not around. That would cause him to last longer.... Also, any kind of medication (or alcohol) could cause him to be unable to climax.

He's ignoring probably so he doesn't get in trouble. Think about it in his shoes, if he gets caught, he gets put in jail for quite some time. Until you're 18, you two really can't do anything about this. It sucks, but I would look for someone else. You can love more than one person, and not many people wind up marrying their first or even second love. I'm already on my third love and I'm only 17. I had a one year relationship, a two year, and now a 9 months and counting. So I was your age when I first fell in love. The second time you fall, will be even harder. So be prepared to fall flat on your face, and get right back up again. Your heart will mend sweetie. Give it time.

ROTFLMAO!!!! OMG I was not expecting that ending. I vote this as Joke of the Day! Absolutely hilarious...I wish I could shower you with stars! *********************** *********************** ***********************

hey there , Look i know how hard living with premature ejaculation can be because i suffered from it for 6 years. Iam 24 years old and had this problem since i was 18 until last year. I tried everything possible to be honest , so many product on the market i wasted my money on and so money painful and expensive techniques i have tried but with no success. Premature ejaculation is a serious problem which can cause serious dents to your self confidence, create problems in your relationships and sometimes can even result in ending of a relationship due to inability to perform in bed. I've been in your position before. I know what it feels like to desperately want to satisfy a woman, but not being able to last long enough to do so.Not only is it an embarrassing problem, it is a frustrating one because I can get an *****ion but I can't enjoy it. But that's not the worst part…every girl I have been with stopped having sex with me after a few times of sex and then broke up with me or left me. I got more and more nervous and the problem became worse and worse. One time, I had an orgasm before the girl even kissed me. I felt like dieing , because i used to go few strokes before i cum now i dont even get there, so trust me i had it bad. here is a list of the things i tried : Iron Wood, Indian God Lotion, Kwang's Solution ,via growth , The stop start technique , Masturbating before sex, kegel exercises , Stud100 , pills and herbs , anti depressant and ssri's, The ejaculation trainer, yoga. and you will be surprised how many of those we_will_cure_premature_ejaculation.com website i fell for, same shit different names. they all look alike ,long one paged websites , money guaranteed, guess what zero results and no money back. Bottom of the line here what worked for me, few years ago i was traveling for a summer vocation over the Middle East. After injuring my foot in a nasty game of soccer i went to this pharmacy and bought a desensitizing spray. When I was home I read the bottle and it said something about helping people with pe. I gave it a try but it numbed my penis and i didn't feel anything at all, but i thought i would go with it until the end and gf didn't mind neither. I inserted my penis in her and i didnt feel anything, it was so numbs i didnt even feel if I was in her or not. Now some people might say: so what? it doesn’t matter as long as the gf or the wifey is pleased , i mean how many times guys with pe had to cum and leave their gfs unsatisfied, so its time to return the favor. BUT GUESS WHAT? PE IS A BAD Curse. because if you dont feel any sensation around your penis you will loose erektion. which what happened to me. she kept trying to turn me on and get me excited but my D**K refused to get hard , so i cured my pe problem but developed an ed ( erektile dysfunction- i know its spelled wrong but it will be censored if i dont misspell it - when you cant get your penis hard) . and thats not the only problem , girls wouldn't like knowing your numb and not enjoying them. People always gave bad reviews for Desensitising sprays but that proved it right there for me. few months later i tried the same spray again but this time . i tried a different dose , different way to apply , time of application and how long to leave it on. Then i went to have sex , for the first time in my life i went past 10 strokes, we had sex for a decent 45 minutes , i was covered in sweat with huuuuge smile on my face , i didn’t believe i finally found something that worked for me . since then every time i use the spray i average 30-60 minutes which is just amazing comparing to what i used to average before. Look many people will criticize Desensitizing sprays but did you guys know that at the beginning of 2010 a new drug will hit the market and its a Desensitizing spray. Its all over the news, its called tempe spray. they have a nice website-http://www.ejaculationspray.com/- and it shows all the phases that the drug went thru , right now it passed phase three in both Europe and USA and they are looking for a approval from the fda so hopefully it will in the market by 2010 so until then you can try the spray I tried , so if the fda is going to prove a Desensitizing spray for premature ejaculation it better be safe. When I came back to usa I found this company and they also have a store in ebay to sell the spray that iam talking about for less than $23 ,they are the cheapest and I think they are the distributers so give it a try u have nothing to loose if you were like me and tried everything else before. Iam not sure if iam allowed to say the name of the spray here because some forums wont allow that, so please if you need the name of the spray or how to use or how to get or even if you need any other information about PE or anything I can be of any help or just want to talk about how painful pe can don’t hesitate emailing me I been through this rough road and willing to help anybody I can help. jus

The best thing to do is withdraw yourself from your girlfreind when you feel like you are going to ejaculate and just kiss and caress her for a few moments, until the feeling goes away a little bit, then continue. As you continue having sex and masturbating, your ejaculatory muscles will strengthen and you'll be able to last longer. If you're still in puberty, then as your body matures and your hormones balance out, you'll probably begin lasting longer in bed. Hope this helps.