I Have Been In An Relationship For Six Years And I Have Been Cheated On What Should I Do

(in bed.) I've been having sex with this man for over a year's time. It can be really great, he's a good size, and he knows what he's doing (no doubt thanks to me). The problem I'm here to ask about is that he really never lasts long enough. He doesn't have a problem with his erection, or anything else at all - it's perfectly normal, enjoyable sex, but on a much shorter time-frame. But not all the time - sometimes it's great, it lasts a long time, everything's awesome. But most of the time it only goes for a few minutes, and he's done, and he can't go again. He says he can't control it or stop it once he feels like he's gonna go... I don't really understand probably because I'm not a man. The only kinds of things we've been able to find online are either supplements/pills or really exotic weird things. So, guys, have you ever had this type of problem? If so, was there any kind of thing in particular that might have helped you, other than some kind of pill? Oh BTW he's not circumcised... apparently that kind of thing makes a difference a lot of times. Thank you so so so much!

First, do Kegel exercises. I'll assume you know what this is. If you don't, then it's squeezing the muscle at the base of your ****. You'll feel yourself using this muscle when you stop the flow when you're taking a piss. When doing it with your **** hard, it should bounce up and down. Second, masturbate before sex. It helps, trust me. Third, a lot of foreplay. When pumping her and you feel like you're getting close, release and start foreplay again. Remember, alot of foreplay before and during sex. when you feel like you continue pumping, resume. Hope this helps.

Masturbate, you practice how you play. Also, do it in the shower. it takes a lonnng time to cum in the shower for some reason? Put a rubber on to. and if you just wanna make her cum, go down on her. if you do this right, she will scream every time :) good luck.

Personally it varies. The other night I lasted about 20 minutes. Usually I last about 5-10 minutes. THere are alot of factors that go into how long you last. I have a friend that says he can last for hours. I hardly believe him. If you are lasting for hours, you most likely are not that excited about intercourse, and therefore it has no point. I am not saying it is impossible, just that it is highly unlikely that they are telling the truth. There are multiple ways to increase your sexual stamina. You can use the start & stop technique, the squeeze technique, you can masturbate more often, wear numing or thicker condoms to decrease the sensitivity, or other methods. Check out this page and it should help you achieve your goals: http://www.sexinfo101.com/is_lastinglonger.shtml

yeah, a friend of mine said his stamina increased when he didn't masterbate. so maybe lay of it a little more and see what happens,

I sense that you are quite young and believe me it's very natural - it gets easier with age. Wearing a condom helps many men slow down. Porn stars appear to slap or bang their penis to achieve the same thing (careful, though). The advice above about training your penile muscles is excellent, and pinching just below the head when you feel yourself starting can help as well. I would spend a lot of time not trying to come but pleasing her in other ways - getting her involved in the 'cure' can be a big help, removing it as any kind of problem. She may even see it as a sort of compliment . . .

Well, there seem to be only nine men. Number the men from 1 to 9, and the rooms from A to I Originally: A 1 2 B 3 C 4 D 5 E 6 F 7 G 8 H 9 Then the innkeeper goes and takes #2 and puts him in I. Only 9 men are accounted for. So I guess the way this works is that the innkeeper is one of the weary men, and he has his own room and only has to find 9 rooms for the other guys.

Don't worry about it, if your as big as you say you are you won't have much trouble pleasing her. Just pay attention to what she is feeling

Talk to him about taking his time and not finishing so quickly...a lot of guys have (or can learn) the control needed to postpone their orgasm for quite a while...

Premature ejaculation has three or four main causes: - Hormone imbalance - Weak sex muscles / inadequate blood flow to penis - Anxiety / stress / worry - Hyper-sensitive penis The best way to treat premature ejaculation is to tackle all the causes, as this guarantees the highest rate of success.