How To Get My Boyfriend To Be Better In Bed Without Hurting His Pride

I'm a healthy adult male in my late 20's, and for pretty much my whole life, my bladder has filled up during the night almost every night causing me to need to wake up to urinate. Most nights I wake up quickly as soon as my bladder starts feeling full and there are no problems -- but occasionally (especially if I'm really tired or stressed) it takes a bit longer and by the time I wake up I need to urinate really urgently and have to run to the bathroom. Well, last night I was REALLY tired (I've been traveling and very busy with work all weekend) and by the time my body finally woke up it was too late -- I had already wet the bed! When I was a kid (until about age 12) I used to wet the bed every night -- since then I've almost always been able to wake up in time to urinate, but have continued to have this problem occasionally, esp. when really tired or stressed. Basically my question is, how common is it for an adult man's bladder to need to urinate every night? Is it likely that my bladder has always just been too small to hold a full night's worth of urine, or is it just that I have a high metabolism or something (which I do) that causes me to have to urinate more than normal during the night? The docs have always suggested it's the former, but can an adult man's bladder really be that small? I've been checked for all sorts of things and I'm not diabetic, don't have any infections or prostate problems or anything of that sort. This is pretty much just a problem I've always had and never totally "grown out of" like I was told I would -- except that I used to wet every night, and now 99% of the time I'm at least able to wake up before that happens. Now that I'm in my late 20s, is there any chance of making that 100%, or am I pretty much stuck with this?

Hello, I read your issue though CAPS & all lol, but honestly I think you both should speak a marriage counselor and also speak to the family Dr. because although you may not want to believe this many relationships go south due to depression and they don't even know it. Also, you may have an issue of thinking too deeply into it because you may not be the problem, it could be your husband. He may feel less of a man if he is unable to penetrate an erection. He may not feel like he once felt when he was younger and probably doesn't put forth the effort in trying because he doesn't want to disappoint you. This may help make you both stronger. I wish you the best of luck with your husband and try not to let the past influence your future. Always remember the PAST was a PRESENT for the FUTURE.

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WILLPOWER! But there are a few excersizes that will make him last longer...i read in Cosmopolitan Mag one time that if you pinch the end of his di*k when he's about ready to c*m enough times eventually he will be able to control when he orgasms.

It doesn't sound to me as this has the makings of a long term relationship. He sounds like a guy who wants his way when he wants and isn't very considerate of you. In the long run you'd probably be better off by ending the relationship rather than get back together and having it only get worse as time goes on. It's unfortunate that you're pregnant by him although it could be much worse should you go back to him, give in to his demands and eventually marry him. Just be certain that he's aware of his financial obligations to you and your child. Best of luck to you.

Masturbate a few hours before, so you're not as excited and try to think of something else while you're doing the act.. think about your homework or something.

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One of the most effective suggestions to help men discover how to last longer in bed naturally, is actually quite simple to accomplish. It's to use different penis workouts. We will go over some of the basic workouts to help get you started on your way to better sex. However, before we start you need to get to the root of the problem and figure out why you have been ejaculating prematurely in the first place. Are you going through stress, or are you becoming too excited during intercourse? You may also be experiencing premature ejaculation as a result of the masturbation methods you use. This could unquestionably be the cause. After you find out why you're ejaculating prematurely, you should then determine on how long you won't to last. Do you want to last for 20 or 30 minutes or do you want to last for a full hour? Once you find out how long you want to last, you can utilize particular workouts for your penis to accomplish that level. Breathing control, believe it or not, is an essential key to help you discover how to last longer in bed naturally. In fact, controlling your breathing is a vital factor. You can also change the positions during sex to help prevent ejaculation. One exercise that you can perform, known as blasting, can also be good for lasting longer in the bedroom. You need to do this exercise while masturbating and you need to try to go as long as you can just short of ejaculation and stop yourself before you do it. I know it will be hard to stop right before you ejaculate, but if you do it, you will observe that your sexual endurance has improved. It's one of the best ways to learn how to last longer in bed naturally.

Whats wrong with being a virgin? I was a virgin till I was sixteen. Girls dont want a man whore. As for lasting longer, how do you know how long you will last? Gotta experience it first to know where you stand.

OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG!!! I HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM! After I masterbait...I'm never horny and I hate it cuz I want to be and stuff but I just want to take a shower and watch tv after. Not cool...lol. You guys should watch porn first and then have sex but YOU blow him first. Do everything to him then he will return the favor by licking your clit and then have sex. Try reversing things. And also have u slept with other guys? Maybe it's just him...Idk

if u want to try a natural way then hell I can't suggest anything different than what was already proposed to you in other answers. If u want to try something unnatural I suggest that you stop by a local convience store( walgreens if there is 1 in your in your area) and buying a tube of Mandelay. Or stopping by a sex toy shop and asking for a cock ring, if you're a cheapo wrap a rubberband around the base of your shaft; constricts bloodflow and sensation since it doesn't really allow skin on your shaft to move; It has worked on me and countless others( which is how I managed to find out when I had this same problem). By the way when the skin on your shaft move it tugs on the skin surrounding the head, creating more sensation.