Do Women Care If You Last Long During Sex

during sex or even masturbation with my fiance I usually last 12-15 minutes. I get the job done regardless. Either from oral or penetration and be playing with her... So thats not the problem. I just would like to know if there are any tips I could use to possibly go another round or make the first last longer. After I ejaculate I don't really get a hard on its stiff but no rock hard. I've been playing (no pun intended) with the stop & go method. It works decent but seems like ejaculation isn't as much as it normally would. I don't want supplements or any of that bull... So... Tips?

i know how you feel dude ii going through the same thing but i read somewere a couple of days ago that most guys between the ages of 16 and 25 suffer from P E theres three things that i have tryed #1....try not to tence up just relax down there#2.... try a little bit of light bondage it realy work just two weeks ago i tryed it and dehydrated but i was happy coz i lasted for around 45 mins most people think about bondage and what it would be like just remember drink plenty of fluids before hand you dont want what happened to me lol#3...just a randem one but alse naughty and fun go to the beach or if you can get access to a pool its just something to do with the temp that help a lot the first time i done it in a pool i lasted close to 2 hours and had to forse myself to cum lol well i hope this info helps you out a bit just remember dont tence(down there)and a bit of light bondae dosent hert no one

like 30 secs...and i guess just practice while you're masterbating or something jeez what a question. good to know you're trying though...

just slow it down, and if he's about to ejaculate then stop before its too late, wait for like 3 seconds then start back to what you were doing

It's not necessarily true. It's difficult the first time with any new partner because both of you have to figure out each other and your own pace. It can be difficult for virgins because they aren't experienced with different techniques. Its like riding a bicycle (sorry for the cheesy analogy). Really the more experience you have, the better you are, but once you learn the basics, you don't really forget them. Its best for the more experienced partner to lead the first time. If both of you are virgins, well then it'll just be an adventure :)

i dont know about the condoms but i guys i have known in the past try to think of other things that are non sexual. also stopping for a break while you calm down helps

Maybe suggest masturbation to him in order to help him gain some sex stamina. I know masturbation has helped me last longer in bed. :-]

Its called foreplay!! If he gets you more ready and revved up he WILL last longer. You can also check that link, kegels will help you both. Try a slower. smoother lovemaking style. it might just be he groove you need. The kegel thing in the link may do the trick either way though.

when you first lose your virginity like you did, you shouldn't have expected to last too long. It's normal for a male to experience Premature Ejaculation the first time and sometimes a couple times after that. It's generally due to inexperience and the fact that you were probably so excited about having Intercourse. These two elements together can cause to get over excited and accidentally ejaculate before you really wanted/intended to.There are many methods out there that can help you better last, some that will take a while for you to see, but are worth the time and effort and some that can be done during every session, but only work a short time. Some short term methods you can use is, like quite a few other answers stated, masturbate before you have sexual intercourse. Do so far enough away from sex where you'll have regained your energy back so you can enjoy the experience and actually ejaculate. If your body is not properly rested, then it'll take forever for you to reach orgasm or you may be unable to at that time and have to wait to release. If you know that you don't regain your energy that easily, you may not want to do this so as not to take any chances on not being prepared next time you and your partner plan to do this. Another method available is the Stop and Go Method. This can be used both in Masturbation and in Sexual Intercourse. Whenever you feel yourself going to orgasm, pull out of your partner and continue stimulating her while you await your orgasm to fade away. After it has, reenter your partner and continue. You can do this as many times as needed until the desired time is reached. The only downside to this is that you could potentially lose your erection while you wait for your orgasm to die down or you'll orgasm anyway. A method that will take some time to show results is doing Kegel Exercises. Kegel Exercises help strengthen the PC muscles (the muscles that control ejaculation) and the muscles that control urination. They are NOT just for females so do not believe myths like that. I will list a few sites below that tell you how to correctly do Kegel Exercises and explain what it is in more depth. You can do more research online on How To Prevent Premature Ejaculation and things around this subject. There should be many free, accurate resources available to help you. Talk to your doctor if you are truly worried and want professional help, but this is something that will go away with time. It was only your first time and as you do it more and more, you'll notice yourself lasting longer. Your partner should be understanding either way. Hope this helps.

The average time men can thrust before ejaculating is between 1 and 5 minutes. If you're thrusting for 12 to 15 minutes before ejaculating, then you're WAY above average. Having sex more often is generally a good method for extending the period of time you can thrust before ejaculating. The key to good sex is to get her as close to orgasm as possible (using fingers, tongue, etc.) before you insert your penis into her vagina, so that she's on the verge of cumming before you start. Also, the same technique that helps you last longer, helps her to have an orgasm faster. That is, doing it more often. The more practice she has at having orgasms the more quickly she can get there. The more practice you have at having orgasms, the longer you can last before having one.

Some guys can control it. My boyfriend can last 2 hrs + if I want him to, or he can go quick. I think it depends on how often you have sex.