How To Last Longer In Bed During Sex Need Serious Help

I usually last for an average of 7-8 mins.,but sometimes I can go for about 30-45 mins. of pumpin'. I'm not always on my A-game and I'm fast on the draw sometimes. I've tried to masturbate without any lubricants(lotions, creams,etc.) and when I tried on game day, I end up blowing up early. Yesterday, I whacked off with lotion and it really stimulates a wet vagina and surprisingly I lasted for about 25 minutes. Can masturbation(with lubes) really help you last in bed? Men's Health magazine says that you must still diligently train even if you have a regular sexual partner.

Same thing used to happen to me. I learned on a website to Jack off longer. Jack off until you are about to shoot the stuff, then all of the sudden stop. Then go back and Jack off more. Then stop. you can do this as many times as you want. It helps prolong how long you last. Just remember don't Jack off to much. Keep you sperm count up. Save some for her. Have fun & happy jacking. Email me.

Masturbating has no limitations to how long you can last in bed. If you masturbate before sex then it will inevitably decrease the size of your ejaculation. My advice to overcome this is simply don't masturbate before sex (at least 6hrs). An uncircumcised penis has nothing to do with this case either. =)

hes probably thinking about cumming too much. he needs to concentrate on something else but still enjoy it. i heard if he flexes it, it makes him cum faster. just keep telling him dont stop it feels so good i wanna cum or something lol

Well its more of a hold back thing. By using this muscle it is possible to hold back your "finish" untill that moment passes and then continue. I prefer to either alter my mindset to avoid it getting to that point or take a break and please her in other ways so I can be confidant that she will be satisfied.

For one thing in porn they sometimes reuse footage. I mean if you're just watching a piston go up and down then you could tape it for 5 minutes and then play it 9 times in a row. So I think they likely get more time in the editing room. I'm not sure of course, but the could do that. And with the cameras rolling I could see it taking longer for the man to come. I think he might feel awkward and it could cause delayed ejaculation. And you can train yourself to not come by thinking about other things so you don't get so turned on. In real life you may be so into the moment it only lasts 5-10 minutes. But these porn guys might be visualizing dead rats or something and then a half hour could go by like that. Also, for some positions/angles where the penis will not be on camera they might be using a cock ring which prevents ejaculation. But yeah, guys in porn definitely seem to last longer than I would in whatever situation they are portraying. Remember it is their job, so not only are they well trained, they get laid a lot too. After awhile of scripted sex it probably just doesn't excite them the way it would if it were a genuine sexual encounter off camera.

YOUR IGNORANT IF YOU ARE BASING HIS SEXUAL PERFORMANCE ON WETHER OR NOT TO MARRY HIM OR NOT. NEWS FLASH SWEETHEART. ALOT MORE COMES WITH MARRIAGE BESIDES SEX, YOU MAY BE 25 BUT YOU STILL HAVE A WHOLE HECK OF A LOT OF GROWING UP TO DO. what happens if 5 years from your marriage, he's in an accident (God forbid) he cant perform sexually, and what are you going to do? disregard the vows you took, and go outside of your marriage to another man simply because yours cant give you what you want anymore? YOu need to get it together and seriously have to grow up. As a matter of fact why dont you show him this question you just asked YA, and allow him to find out the only reason you appear to be interested in him for.

the penis is an erectile muscle. to work this muscle u well...gotta masturbate or have constant sex. or just try pills. or after round 1 wait like 15 - 30 minutes. these minutes can be consumed by cuddling, foreplay, or whatever, then go back again.

Tell him you faked it with someone else. Try listening to Loveline. I don't know what radio channel it's on where you are at but here in Louisville, Kentucky it comes on 93.1. It has Dr. Drew on there who is an actual Doctor who talks about sex and other sexual interest. Don't worry he's not like that old woman who's on talk sex. He is actually interesting. He does say that the average for a man is about 5-10 minutes. Dr. Drew also explains that woman don't always orgasm during sex but can still enjoy it. Try listening to Loveline with him because if you say it, it's one thing but it he hears a male doctor saying it and explaining it, it means much more.

most men only last 7-10 minutes.... read it in a magazine... but your friends are full of shit... or they are jsut talking big game to make themsleves feel better cause in reality the probably get off before hes even penetrated! haha suckers.

tell him to tighten it up, his PC muscles try it seriously and see the difference Controlling ejaculation is a huge issue for many men, one that they are often too embarrassed to bring up. How do I control myself? How can I last longer, be firmer and do better? The answer is working out your pubococcygeus muscles (PC) muscles, by doing Kegel exercises for men. PC muscles control the flow of semen and urine, the firmness of your penis during erection and the shooting power of your ejaculation. They are important, and if kept very strong, will see you into your golden years with a fantastical hard on. The great thing about Kegel exercises for men is that you can do them anywhere, anytime -- and nobody will know the difference. You will be able to better control your orgasms and ejaculations, and last for longer, plus you may get the added kudos of being able to hold up a wet towel with your erection if you practice these Kegel exercises for men. How do I know where my PC muscles are? The easiest way to find them is to stop your flow of urine next time you go to the bathroom. Another way to isolate them is to put your finger inside your anus; when you contract the right muscles, your anus will tighten. However you decide to find them, once they are found you need to practice feeling exactly where they are located -- it is easy to overcompensate for weak muscles by using the abdominals, buttocks or thighs. These must all stay relaxed when doing Kegel exercises for men. Now, on to the daily Kegel exercises for men. Note: These exercises are done hands-free. You do not “squeeze” anything with your hands as they are all done with your PC muscles. kegel session 1Exercise A Sets: 3 Quickly clench and release repeatedly for 10 seconds. Take a 10-second break between sets. Exercise B Sets: 10 Clench and release repeatedly for 5 seconds. Take a 5-second break between sets. Exercise C Sets: 3 Tighten and hold your PC muscle for 30 seconds. Take a 30 second break between sets. That’s it for today, but repeat these Kegel exercises for men daily for one week. kegel session 2Exercise A Sets: 10 Clench and hold your PC muscle for 5 seconds. Release and repeat. Exercise B Sets: 3 Quickly clench and release your PC muscle 10 times. Exercise C Sets: 3 Clench and release your PC muscle alternatively in long and short bursts for counts of 10. Exercise D Sets: 1 Tighten your PC muscle and hold for as long as you can. Aim for 2 minutes. You can do the session 2 Kegel exercises for men for a week; however, feel free to progress if you feel you are strong enough. Remember that these are strengthening exercises, so start off slowly and build up, just like you would with any other muscle.