My New Boyfriend Doesnamp39t Last Long In Bed What Should I Do

I do not have a ton of experience, so maybe you guys can help me out. I have been seeing this guy for about 8 weeks. We've been sleeping together for about 4 weeks. We have sex about 3 times per week.The sex is really great, but I am worried he is losing interest. I could stay in bed with him for hours at a time, but after about 20-30 minutes, he is ready to roll over and go to sleep. The first few times we had sex I remember it lasting much longer. Do I just have a more active sex drive or is he sending me subtle hints that he is slowly losing interest? I kind of always assumed that most guys would have sex all the time if they could.

Sex isn’t just about thrusting, pumping and pivoting. This method takes the focus off the intercourse and redirects it to other parts of the female anatomy – onto her other erogenous zones. Which zones you’ll work on will be dictated by the sex position you’re in. - Back of her neck. If you’re in doggy, lean over her and softly kiss the back and sides of her neck. Slow the tempo of the thrust down to one or two strokes every 5 seconds. By itself, this pace slow down wouldn’t be too great, but coupled with the redirection of pleasure to the female’s other erogenous zones, it’s a real winner. - Her ears. There are a ton of nerve endings around her ears, making them ultra-sensitive to your touch. Once again, if you’re in Doggy or a similar position, kiss and caress her ears. Don’t tongue them, or get all sloppy. Use a light touch and be sensuous - Her scalp. “Her scalp?!” I hear you cry. Don’t worry, I haven’t gone all dermatologist on you. Women play with their hair because it feels good, it’s not just a nervous habit. Run your fingers through it as you're kissing her, or, simply caress her scalp gently with your hand Remember to start out slow to gauge whether she likes it. Most women do. - The small of her back. As well as being full of nerve endings, the lower back can often be an area of the female body where stress can accumulate. Run the pad of your palm slowly and gently from between her shoulder blades to the base of her back, gradually increasing the pressure as you move down her body. You can focus on those 4 erogenous zones to take the pressure off the thrusting for a good 30 seconds and in turn lower your need to ejaculate. Be creative and cater towards what you know she already enjoys, as well as exploring new, sensitive soft spots. For more hot spots you need to hit for longer lasting and better sex, check out the free report here -> http://www.ejackulation.net It really works for me so far so good.. :)

If you both are having an orgasm than there is no problem. 30-45 minutes is fine. Three hours!....most people have other things to do with their day.

Premature Ejaculation is a serious problem for lots of men, but it can be effectively cured with very simple measures. Mental control is just as important as physical control, so the first thing to do is to learn techniques to manage your mind before and during sex. Once you’ve done this, then physical control techniques become much easier, and you can basically last for as long as you want to.

I would like to think I've given it a good try - but I'm hopeless at refusing sex when the girl comes on to me, so probably not!

Masturbate together first... watching each other orgasm. Maybe he's just getting a little too excited that he's inside you and gets lost in the act - spending that time beforehand masturbating WITH him will get his PHYSICAL orgasm out of the way so he can concentrate on having a MENTAL orgasm with you vaginally. Women tend to orgasm mentally - associated with emotions. Men tend to orgasm physically (they have to think about non-sexual things to ignore the physical joy they are feeling). SO take care of his mind first and his body will fall in line. He can also help control his ejaculating muscles - when he pees, he should start and stop the stream 5-10 times. Meaning, he should begin to pee and then squeeze the muscles so the urine stream stops. Then start peeing again. It is VERY effective - and, if he pulls out of you to come, he will shoot so much father! I know from experience!!!! GOOD LUCK

There's no easy answer. The SECOND round of sex that night might be a lot better. Or find ways to enjoy slightly different sexual activities. In most areas of life, being fast and intense in one's physical actions is a GOOD thing. It can be tough to change that dynamic just for sexual intercourse. Well, there are certain devices in the area of sex toys that you can maybe bribe him to use ...

It sounds like you are not relaxed during sex and also thinking more about getting pregnant. Talk to your husband about how you feel and work towards becoming more intimate with him. I'm sure then this will make you both feel more relaxed and you won't be so stressed about getting pregnant and then eventually you will become pregnant. Good luck to you.

smoking has nothing to do with how long someone lasts in bed. It's how things are being done thats all. him quitting smoking wont change anything sweety.

i don't think creams and spray are really good... but maybe that's just me. have you already visited http://www.treatprematureejaculation.net ? They explain very well every type of treatments available today to overcome premature ejaculation

with respect...how like a female...most complain they dont last long enough in bed, then when one does last a long time they wonder if somethings wrong! :) if u didnt turn him on he wouldnt be sleeping with you and wouldnt even h ave an erection, so relax, and be glad your not dating a minute man