How Can I Last Long In Bed

I am a guy and my first couple of times i was done very quickly.

To very true it hurts,but a great laugh ,because if a man and a woman are to survive a relationship there must be plenty of laughter for both!

I read it all and it is awesome I hope you get your man. Sounds like you have good chemistry together. Also you sound so excited and happy good for you. I hope he is your souI mate, behind God. Is he white, and you are black? I am married to a white man and I am black. Also if he is white, and you are not used to dating white men they court differently in my opinion. So just feel him out and stay busy but not so busy you make no time for him. Do other things besides focus on him and if you have plans to do something when he asks you out. Tell him you have plans then immediately suggest going out on a different day or time, or cancel your plans depending on their importance.

Hurray for you for wanting to help the situation. My b/f has the same problem, but he refuses to take any kind of medication to help his problem out and he refuses to do any kind of foreplay or satisfy me in other ways. As for your girlfriend cheating, I'm sorry to say but yes it will happen. I did. See a doctor to help with your problem and good luck.

have u ever tried drinking alcohol b4 sex? but not too much because he wont get hard if he drank too much , i lil bit of tequila will help him last longer.

I think your husband is being a bit too cautious. Kids have always climbed into bed with their parents. It is just a way of filling a need for closeness. If you just stop him getting into bed with you "cold turkey" he will think he has done something wrong & is being punished. Try gradually saying "Not today , Daddy is tired" or "Not today, we are getting up early to go to the park". Make it fun time for him & soon he will not want to get in, only to get you out.

For the people above, it was a freaking JOKE!!!!!!!!!! Like quit being so defensive. I actually found that funny. Although it's true not every girl is like that.

Jack, If you can recover well, try getting off during foreplay. While you are recovering you can focus on your partner. That will take the edge off. Have your partner do just enough to get you hard enough to go in and no more. If you still find yourself hitting the edge too fast, slow down or pull out, or learn to control the muscles that can delay your orgasm. You might also consider using a cheap condom like trojan. They will lessen sensation and could help. Worst choice is the numbing sprays and creams as they rub off on your partners and do the same thing to them.