How To Control Premature Ejaculationduring Sex

I do know that people say moisturizing helps. Does that mean that if I use moisturizing soap (example: "Softsoap") then it will help? Or body/skin care lotion. Would that help? I am using the "Jergins body moisturizer" sunless tanning lotion (so I don't get skin cancer). How long does that last? It says its already a moisturizer but I thought maybe using a different moisturizer on top would help. Also, it says to wait several minute for it to dry and I waited like 10 minutes before I went to bed. Do you think some of it could possibly come off when I get in the bed? 10 points for the best answer. :)

Your guy needs a little more self control. Those numbing gels and creams do tend to desensitize you but it also takes all the pleasure out of the experience. The solution is two fold but you don't necessarily have to do them both at the same time. The first one is to be more giving in bed (BOTH of you). Obviously whenever a guy has sex there is no question as to whether or not he's going to finish. For women it's not always that easy. So during sex rather than both of you grinding along trying to get to your respective happy places mix things up. On one night spend time focused on pleasing him, it can be fun and just as arousing for both people. On another night have the focus on you, entirely on you. If his sole focus is on giving you pleasure rather than just having sex then chances are, and with enough practice you'll begin to start having better sexual experiences. Also it's good conditioning for him to learn patience and self control, which is the second thing I was going to say. sex feels good, really really good, and if a guy isn't careful all that good feeling brings a fast end to the evening whether he wants it to or not. teach him to take his time and focus on the moment rather than the sensations and eventually he'll no longer be a two pump chump Most woman remember their boyfriends as having lasted longer when the relationships started but they don't understand why it seems to go away. The answer is when most sexual relationships start, they start slowly. We take our time, we tickle, we tease, and basically take four play to the level it should be to get a girl reved up. But people get lazy in relationships and don't try as hard after awhile skipping four play and going straight to the sex. So yeah sex doesn't last as long because you skipped half of it, and yeah the girls don't get theirs because they never got the chance to "warm up" first.

ask him to masturbate a little bit in the night time or something like 1 a day. Masturbating will increase his stamina. So lets say he masturbates for two weeks. The time you have sex he will more or likely last longer. Though try to read up on techniques I heard that taking breathes while having sex sometimes help.Also possibly if he cums before you have sex then has sex with you it will be ok

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tell him to man up and hold it back.. it takes practice but you can go for at least 30-45 mins if you can learn to hold it back 2-3 times... but for him to learn it would take like a month or 2

the girl on top, is one of the best ways for her to get pleasure. do not have his penis going in and out, jus move ur hips and shake your hips to whatever way you want.if you just do this it should help prevent him from climaxing so early and you get what you want. my best advice would be for you to cut out foreplay with him, and let him foreplay you. thats from experience :L

he may be impotent...meaning he shoots out nothing..he has to see a doctor, it could be a sign of something more serious.

Being away from you for that period of time, plus the extra stimulation of a new sexual position would do it. He should take longer in the future.

My Fiance takes pain killers and He is able to last a long time. But that is only because he has a type of Disease that cause a lot of pain like M.S. Plus he is still able to last a long time without being on pain killers. So I guess it just depends on the type of person. I also heard that Hot Sauce on you penis will help men last longer. Not sure is that is ture, but give it a try.

It's not uncommon for a guys to last only a couple of minutes in actual intercourse that is why I almost always get the girl to orgasm before I have even started intercourse. So maybe he needs to do more foreplay to you before the intercourse.