How To Last Longer Whilst During Sex

So here's the thing, my bf and I are completely different sexually. I love him but this is really becoming a problem for me. Here are just a few of the things that bother me: I like to talk/be talked to dirty and he's tried this but the things he says are so corny (lol I love his corniness outside the bedroom but just irritates me in bed). He just doesn't say the right things, his talk is "clean" (if that makes sense) I've told him what I want many many MANY times, but he just does not get it (you'd think I wouldn't have to tell the man each and every time he gets back there to smack my , doesn't it come natural at some point??) I'd like to experiment with toys/oils etc, but his initial reaction was that we should be able to enjoy each other naturally without having to bring in outside things. Even had the nerve to say that when God created sex there weren't any toys or oils (WTF???) I was too threw, just let go of the topic. I love porn and would love to watch with him but that's a no go, think he doesn't like the idea of me looking at other men's bizness. To make matters worse, he has no idea what foreplay means, wants to rush right into doin the deed. I've told him countless times about this and it'll be corrected for a couple days then back to the same bs. I even try telling him, as we're getting started, to slow down or to kiss me in a certain spot (ie my thigh or back or something). He'll give me one little quick peck wherever I told him and then rush back to doing what he was doing! Grrr, irritated thinking about it!! His stamina even frustrates me! He's ready to so daggon fast and even though he doesn't right away, he'll keep stopping after only a few strokes so that he can last longer. It's so irritating! I'm like, umm are you going to eff me or not?!? Sigh I've tried the honesty route- disaster. I've tried the guiding him route- disaster. I've tried the accepting the unsatisfying sex route- disaster I'm outta options :(

simply put, sexually, you married the wrong man. all you're left to do is hire a young man to mow your lawn or look for a new pool boy.

Hi, Sometimes you have to light a fire under a person like him. No, it would not be mean of you. It is not a good stable environment for your son to visit....it's a flop house not a home. Some people would say that does not matter but, in my books, it does. Your husband is showing your son that his behavior is O.K. It's not. There's nothing O.K. about a deadbeat who doesn't work and hasn't taken on the responsibility of a Father, and shows that he doesn't care whether he sees his son or not. Only seeing his Dad on a rare occasion is confusing to the child. If your husband cannot consistently be a Father to the boy, then he shouldn't see him until he is ready to set a good example and show he cares about his sons welfare, etc. Number one and two, you can certainly do. But I, personally, would add a #3. That is, I would inform the Judge that he has not paid child support, he has no home of his own and is sleeping on someones couch. I imagine, after as many years as I've spent in the courtroom, that the Judge would grant you full custody and conservatorship over him. You husband will never change until he either has to pay too many consequences or the price he has to pay to continue his lifestyle is more than he wants to pay. Until then, it will just continue to be the same ole' thing. JOSA

I think this all perfectly normal................if he's only coming to your bed in the morning then i don't see the problem ...it's good to have that time together.............as for the body bits,,,,,,all kids are curious , thats how they learn. Just explain to him thats it's not nice to ask the other kids about it and that when he wants to know things he should just ask you or his dad........i'm sure it's just a phase he's going through.........they all do it...don't worry too much xx

Just ask you're girl to be truthful with you, and obv. to not fake orgasms, then you will know when she is done, and if you lasted that long, congratulations. Not many men can.

LMAOOOO ok you have to think about other thing while having sex like whens the next football game etc if it keeps on happening just say "ur too hottt"

The feeling of orgy will keep man in sexual act. To maintain such emotion of wanting sex the longer, one has to take aprosidiac. try taking fish liver oil 1 hour before bedding a female. It is called Esqualene capsule. Take it twice a month after waking up.

wow.... well what ever floats ur boat i guess but he's just nervous that people will tihnk something happened and he doesn't want to get his ass in jail but u may love him but don't do anyithng till ur out of school like for real it'll be really bad if you do but good luck and don't be sad that he's not talking to you what happened with you guys does sound kinda like love but he's just scared