How Do I Last Longer In Bed I Am A 35yo Male With Plenty Of Drive Just No Staying Power

I do know that people say moisturizing helps. Does that mean that if I use moisturizing soap (example: "Softsoap") then it will help? Or body/skin care lotion. Would that help? I am using the "Jergins body moisturizer" sunless tanning lotion (so I don't get skin cancer). How long does that last? It says its already a moisturizer but I thought maybe using a different moisturizer on top would help. Also, it says to wait several minute for it to dry and I waited like 10 minutes before I went to bed. Do you think some of it could possibly come off when I get in the bed? 10 points for the best answer. :)

Bring yourself to about 50%, slow down, foreplay, then go up to 60%, slow down, more foreplay, etc, etc, etc. Helps if you focus on something else while you're doing it. I play music in my head, lol. But you know, it's more important to give her GOOD sex than long sex, so don't spend TOO much time trying to bring up your stamina.

If you ejaculate too fast, instead of just rolling over and going to sleep or whatever, wait a few minutes the go for another round! There is no rule that says you are limited to one session at a time. You will find that it will take you longer to reach orgasm with each consecutive session, thereby increasing the odds of your partners satisfaction. Over time, with experience you will learn to control yourself and this "problem" will diminish.

For some reason, the longest sessions I've had all came when I had a few drinks, but they were really long sessions. Try a shot of something 15-20 minutes before having sex. But approach this like a training manual, and not a drunkard. Just try one shot, and then see if it helps. If you try this afew times and it doesn't increase ur sex time, try adding another shot or drink... but don't lose your focus. -Enjoy-

if its a " tanning lotion" then the product will include moisturising ingredients, i think its similar to "johnsons tanning" that we have in the uk. i always exfoliate in the shower every single time that i am planning on using any type of tan. then make sure ur really dry before you use it. if you use a tan that isnt a moisturising lotion then would put a body lotion on and then wait 10 minutes, not clothed and then put the fake tan on. moisturinsg soap wont help becuase it doesnt stay on your skin for very long, its simply just an improvemtn from like a fruity or a plain soap. and lastly, sometimes it helps if you put talc powder, if you are putting fake tan on and then going out cos its feels nice and clean and dry and plus it wont budge :)

I have been here before myself and I am sorry that you are here now. The first thing I think you should do is slow down on the drinking. I know how in a way it numbs everything but this is something that you just cant numb. The best thing for you to do is you need to find something that does make you happy, even if it is only for a min or two. A hobby, or go spend time with your mother. I can only guess that it really started to go down hill when you and your bf broke up. To be honest I would even look at getting professional help with this depression because you would not it to get worse. I know that they will tell you that you need to find something that gets your mind off things like a hobby. They will send you to a group so you are around other people that are in the same boat as you are and allow you to have a common connection. As I stated before it might be best for you to spend time with your family because they will always be there for you and will fill that void of not being held. You will pull through this just have to keep your head up and remember the little things will always make you the happiest.

Have him get you to the point that you're almost there before he penetrates. Continue to use your/his fingers on your clit ... That way, you'll be ready to bust when he enters and hopefully, you'll get there even if he does go quickly. There are also numbing creams for him and enchancing creams for you that you can buy, but I don't know how pleasant these are to use.

have him go down on you, or play with for a little bit, get you stimulated first, and then he can have a whack at it. or just don't have sex its up to you

Premature ejaculation has three or four main causes: - Hormone imbalance - Weak sex muscles / inadequate blood flow to penis - Anxiety / stress / worry - Hyper-sensitive penis The best way to treat premature ejaculation is to tackle all the causes, as this guarantees the highest rate of success.

Well he hasnt married, he hasnt been in a serious relationship and he is 41. HE IS A CHEATING IDIOT. Sorry to be so blunt, but he has no idea what a relationship is about. Given that some people who are lets say 20 do make mistakes because they never had a relationship. Stuff happens but from that stuff people are supposed to learn. If u cant learn from ur mistakes u are a idiot. He had enough time to learn what is love, and that cheating is WRONG. I mean why bother with this loser?

It takes longer for women to become aroused. Spend more time on foreplay and when it's your turn, both of you will be satisfied.