really I have to do the same thing too sometimes it is hard for a guy to control it like you can but it is hard I can stay hard after I come but sometimes you just do not want to do it anymore after, and if you are like my chick she still does usually takes her longer most of the time. If you give him head it might last longer but sometimes not do not let him get all turned on right before hand I know foreplay makes the sex but soometimes it also hurts the tenson builds up in the guy and he just needs to release. Maybe it is the position too try going on top I have an easier time controling myself when she is on top( and it is sexy as hell to have a girl on top of you maoning and rubbing her hair all over the place it's just sexy and if that is really you in the pic then you would be beautiful on top of me and like I said after I finish i can still maintain to finsih you. silverclrk@yahoo.com
WOW...I'm not sure why the respondents so far have been so harsh on you. I'd guess more women would wish men WOULD think about this sort of stuff. On average, it appears from everything I've ever read that women take 25-30 minutes to reach orgasm and of course that's including good (emphasis on GOOD) foreplay. It's always nice for the woman if you can last long enough to move through several different positions but not so long as to make her start wondering if there's a problem. It's really something you need to talk about with her but I'm sure you are just trying to get a ballpark sort of number to see if you are on the right track. Let's hope some of the men here will step up to the plate and be helpful :) If you are concerned you might be ejaculating prematurely, then maybe you might consider rephrasing your question. Also, I'm sure the answer to your question is different for different age ranges of men so it might help the male respondents to know what age you are asking about. Good luck.
There are certain condoms that you can buy that have this stuff in the lube that kinda numbs your...area so that you can last longer. And just practice I guess :)
I know this will sound weird but it worked for my husband. When he has to go to the bathroom (pee) have him hold it for a little while. Not a long time because he could give himself a UTI, but a little while won't hurt him. My husband swears it helped him and the proof is that he does last longer. We have been married and don't make love as often as we used to either so at times he can be pretty quick. On those nights when he thinks its going to be a quick one he takes care of me first. Either digitally, if you get my meaning, lol or orally (yay!) :) So then I am satisfied and he doesn't feel bad and then we are both happy. He and I are a bit older, I am 36 and he is 44 and we have learned that with improvisations, we can both be happy in our sex life. My husband has always been very unselfish and concerned that I a satisfied too. I am sure your husband is frustrated with this as well, you know a man fragile ego and all, so he will probably be open to suggestions. Just make sure you do it gently, not accusingly or it won't work and he will feel even worse. I have a friend whose husband has never been able to last longer than a few minutes. Their solution is he "takes care of himself" a little while before they are together and that helps him last longer with her. Or she will take care of him orally and then they snuggle or talk or even watch a movie together, lol and then later he is able to preform wonderfully for her. There are lots of solutions to this, it's just up to the both of you to find things you are both comfortable with to solve the issues. I will admit that I have had my tubes tied so the stress of an unwanted pregnancy is not there. I know you said don't suggest birth control but I will just mention one. Have you ever heard of the IUC Merina? It is a 5 year hormonal Inter Uterine device that is place in the cervix and steadily releases the hormones. It can be in place up to five years but taken out anytime before then if you decide you want to conceive. It significantly lessons or even for some people stops their periods. You might just want to go check it out online. But if not that's okay too....I just thought i'd throw it out there for you. :) I hope some of these suggestions help.... But if not, then theres always "alone time" bubble baths when the house is empty, lol :)
he may have a sexual addiction and you are fine and have reason to be upset he has no idea what he is missing out on with you
So basically, it's been 2 hours since you text him and you want a bunch of strangers to tell you why he hasn't returned your text? This question has genuinely made my blood boil.
Ok well first the amount of times you masturbate has nothing to do with it . When you masturbate do you watch porn and lets say masturbate fast if so you are used to masturbating fast and therefore it is the same during sex. When masturbating take your time don't rush things .
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