My Guy Only Lasts 3 Minutes What Can I Do To Make Him Last Longer

I'm feeling a bit awkward asking this here, but I honestly rather be educated about this than make a mistake, so anybody who is kind enough to red and advice me, I'll be greaful to you, forever! My boyfriend and I are both 18, we've been together for 3 months so far. Yesterday we were making out on his bed. It started of slow and romantic, then one kiss got a bit steamy, and by that I mean passionate (we did NOT feel each other up and down.. we have loads of limits) after a while we wanted to experiment our kissing position (he always wanted a lappy, like me sitting on his lap as we kissed) so he asked if he could and I gave in, we kissed like that for say about a minute and then we both thought it may get too much so we stopped and I got up. After that we were just sitting in bed and kissing, and then naturally we just fell back on the bed, and the next moment he's on top of me, and our kiss turns real steamy and aggressive. I loved every bit of it, and I was not uncomfortable, if I was I would have stopped him. Then we got up, he then asked for it again..so we fell back on the bed, and that kiss lasted longer, we didn't break it for a while. Until he suddenly sprung up and goes "sorry" as we quickly got up. Later at night he told me something I didn't expect, he said he got a boner while we were kissing as we lay down. I hardly knew what to say to him. I kinda wondered why he told me this. He also later on told me that he wanted the lappy again. Do you think the lappy lead to his erection? And could it be that he sprung up because of the erection? Also, is it dangerous? We both don't want to have sex. But after he said this I got scared we'd get carried away. :( Also, does a man have an orgasm when he ejaculates? I don't know, I just so confused. I need knowledge on this, for my own good. Thank you SO much to everyone that helps me out.

Wow, I think this guy has issues and is indeed a ding dong. The bottom line here is that your not getting satisfied so that issue needs to addressed and he sounds like a selfish man. Maybe he needs to cut back on wanting so much sex. I'm surprised you put up with that. How old is this guy? Sounds like he might not be sure of his sexuality.

Hi krzynurse, There are a lot of things you can do. However, just talking from personal experience, I have tried all the usual methods, such as kergel exercises, hypnosis, pills, sprays, creams etc. None of them worked for me, I was still only lasting a couple of minutes just like your husband. I have none found a product that actually works, well at least for me it does. It is called D-Lay For Men, and it was just launched a few months ago. It has been developed by members of the ISSM (International Society of Sexual Medicine), and is a herbal cream, which has no anaesthetic, so doesn't reduce your partners' sensation. Have you spoke to your partner about it? Is he willing to try a new product? If not, then it could be an issue. The website of D-Lay For Men actually has a page for women affected by premature ejaculation, as well as a forum with a womens section where you can discuss with others. For more information you can visit http://www.delay-cream.com. Hope you guys can find a solution, John

The old little boy meets hot girl story, a young gentleman knows that you always pleasure the lady first. His time will c.um when the job is done.

Hi why not just go with where ever the feelings take u both,in other words satisfy her then it's ok for u to finish..Ciao ♥

Whats up with 5 minutes? I go for longer (About 30min) but my girlfriend finishes up before me... 5 minutes would mean i would "Finish" as well. I hate going for a long time.

of course i would im not that shallow, if a chick is really into you and you may not be the best in bed im sure she'll work on it with you not just to give her the luvin she craves but also to boost your confidence and make you feel more comfortable

It all comes in time. You need to slow it up then. When you feel like you are ready to burst, stop for like 30 seconds and go again. Like I am 17 and I can sit here for like up to an hour because I learned to control it more. While I used to last like a minute.